How to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back and Make Things Better
by James Greenier
You broke up with your girlfriend and you want her back. But you shouldn’t just want things to go back to the way they were. You should want things to be better. You want her to love you more than she did when you first met. That will not happen with a snap of your finger, but it can happen.
Before you can win her heart, you have to know her heart. There is always more to a woman than what you see on the surface. When she has a rough day, she just wants someone who will listen. She wants someone to tell her everything will be okay. Most of all, she wants to vent. And it’s your job to let her. The best approach is to stop everything you are doing and take the time to listen. Also remember that you don’t have to come up with a solution to fix all of her problems.
You can offer her more simple solutions. Such a solution would be something like massaging her shoulders, drawing her a bath or cooking her dinner. That won’t cure all of her problems but it will allow her to let go of her stress. And she will be appreciative that your attentive nature helped chase her problems away, even if it was for just a little while.
Women want a man who will be their rock. By being that kind of man, it will make her love you even more. The more you provide her with these type of simple solutions, the more she will want to turn to you whenever things do not go her way.
The best way to win her heart is to be a romantic. One way of doing that is by giving her gifts. That can be flowers and candy, but it doesn’t always have to be gifts that are bought. Write her a love letter, make something for her or fix her a four-course meal. The most romantic gifts are not always the ones purchased in a store. Putting time and effort into a gift makes it extra special. And whenever she thinks of that gift, she won’t remember a price tag. She will remember your dedication and care.
There are other ways to be romantic. You can go the traditional route. Light some candles, crack a bottle of wine and tell her all the things that make her so special. Making a woman feel beautiful is the key to winning her heart.
Before you can put any of those plans into action, give her some time. After a breakup, women are emotional. Trying to rekindle your relationship too soon will only push her away. So while you wait, make use of your time.
You can try eating healthy, getting plenty of rest and exercising. All of those things will not only pass the time but they will make you feel better about yourself. You can also make some time for your friends. And when you are in a group, you will be able to distract yourself from reliving your breakup over and over in your mind.
Once an adequate amount of time has passed, contact her and agree to meet on her terms. Then, when you finally have the chance to present the new you, remember that actions speak louder than words. Don’t tell her you understand her heart, show her you understand her heart. Don’t tell her you will be more romantic, just go out and be romantic.
Chances are that she has heard promises in the past. So don’t promise her the future. Instead, show her that the you are the one who can lead her to the future she always wanted.
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